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Is this like a suicide text thing?

Dear relative, Thank you for writing in. The Ask Auntie site is not a crisis line and we don’t monitor it 24/7. If you or a loved one are thinking about suicide or in crisis there are resources that are available for you. You can call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255…

Answered by Auntie Manda

Topics: Identity, Mental Health

What should I say when non-natives ask if I speak my language? I feel insulted because it’s their fault we don’t know our languages and I feel mocked.

I get the frustration. Sit in it, spend some time there and look around. So that when you’re done with it, you can be ready to move on and you’re not dragged back into that space in the future because you’ve made peace with it. I also think you already…

Answered by Auntie Manda

Topics: Activism, Identity, Intolerance, Non-Native Allies

Cabin Fever! Help!

Hey Auntie, I’m getting crazy cabin fever with the power outages and winter! Help! Read More

Answered by Auntie Manda

Topics: Culture and Language, Identity, Life Tips

Dear Auntie, any tips for online dating?

Q: Dear Auntie, I’ve recently started online dating. I’ve held off forever because I’ve heard some horror stories from friends. Have any tips? Read More

Answered by Auntie Manda

Topics: Life Tips, Relationships

How can I get a Native American name?

Dear relative, Thanks for reaching out. Being Native means different things to each person. There are 573 federally recognized tribes in the lower 48 states, 223 village communities in Alaska and the Hawaiian Islands; each with its own identity, culture, with over 300 languages. For some, it means that they…

Answered by Auntie Manda

Topics: Culture and Language, Identity, Spirituality

Questions About COVID Vaccines

Hey Auntie, can you please explain the difference between the two vaccines? If I get it, I’m still not convinced, do I still have to wear a mask in public? Read More

Answered by Auntie Manda

Topics: Life Tips, Physical Health

Dear Auntie, what can I do to raise awareness of cervical cancer?

Dear Auntie, my Auntie was just diagnosed with cervical cancer and I want to get involved with spreading awareness. She mentioned that January is cervical cancer awareness month. What can I do? Read More

Answered by Auntie Manda

Topics: Physical Health, Sexual Health

Hi Auntie! How do I gain confidence in my identity as a Native?

Hi Auntie! I’m pretty fair skinned compared to a lot of my family and it has always made me feel insecure in my identity. I’ve been called “white girl” or when I say I’m Indigenous I’m asked to “prove it.” How do I gain confidence in my identity as a…

Answered by Auntie Manda

Topics: Culture and Language, Identity

Should I Go to School to Help Tribes?

Hi Auntie Amanda, I was reading about suicide rates in the United States and American Indians were the highest in rates. As a non-Tribal person, would it be acceptable for me to pursue a degree in psychology to help tribes? Read More

Answered by Auntie Manda

Topics: Mental Health, Non-Native Allies

I like my auntie my mum’s sister and I talk too much but I think she’s annoyed of me so what should I do how often should I speak to her and she’s my favorite aunt.

Hey there! Thanks for writing in. It’s good to be aware of how people react to what we do and say. These are called interpersonal skills. When we take a moment to think about them, or reach out to others to get their insight we build upon these skills. Throughout…

Answered by Auntie Manda

Topics: Life Tips, Relationships

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Is this like a suicide text thing?

What should I say when non-natives ask if I speak my language? I feel insulted because it’s their fault we don’t know our languages and I feel mocked.

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How can I get a Native American name?

Questions About COVID Vaccines

Dear Auntie, what can I do to raise awareness of cervical cancer?

Hi Auntie! How do I gain confidence in my identity as a Native?

Should I Go to School to Help Tribes?

I like my auntie my mum’s sister and I talk too much but I think she’s annoyed of me so what should I do how often should I speak to her and she’s my favorite aunt.

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